To being with, let’s understand the attributes of our heart and our mind and we will understand listening to whom and in what situation, will be more worthwhile for us …
That everybody deals with each day and no matter who loses or who wins, in the end, the effects of the action that was performed or not carried out needed to be faced by us.
First of all, please comprehend your heart never says anything or does feel anything.
Your brain has two sensible parts, conscious and subconscious. One of these is your abstract thought part and the other is the logical, emotional, and pleasure-oriented part. This pleasure-oriented and psychological part is absolutely nothing but the heart that we all seem like the second voice inside us.
I would highly recommend reading this post “Where to begin self-awareness?” prior to continuing further on this post, as this would help you comprehend more in-depth about the voices inside us.
This is the biggest and the hardest battle of everybody’s life. The fight in between your heart vs mind.
But for the sake of this post, we will consider the heart as the other voice inside us which is the rational side of ours.
So today we are going to deep dive into this fight in between your heart and mind, and try to comprehend it together …
Which side prefers satisfaction and comfort?
Our heart being the emotional and rational side of ours, will constantly try to talk us out of any situation or
action which is uncomfortable. At the very same time, it will always try to drive towards an action or job which results in pleasure. And we hate our mind for asking us to act and to do things that are essential for us to progress in any aspect of life. It put down all the possible reasons for us to take action and work upon something.
Which side never states “NO”?
Your heart never states “NO”. Yes, you might think this to be a little an overstatement however try to observe your heart and you will notice this too.
This is the beauty of our heart and this is
Remember, in the battle in between your mind vs heart, the effects always have actually to be beard by you and just you.
So now to sum up, your heart will constantly play the great guy while it being the reason for all the procrastination and satisfaction seeing habits we ever have.
For every action-oriented and decision-making, we need to only listen to the realities and logic of our mind.
Thus, the heart never says no …
At the same time, it will constantly attempt to drive towards an action or task which results in satisfaction. And we dislike our mind for asking us to take action and to do things that are necessary for us to advance in any aspect of life.
The heart or rather the logical part of our mind is required when we wish to feel something. When we want to dance our heart out, when we desire to have a good time when we wish to put our discomfort out, when we desire to deal with our liked ones.
There is a lot to be talked about around the mind vs heart fight however I will stop here and hope that this post assists you in some method to select the sides when you are caught in the battle in between your mind and your heart …
Still, we blame our mind for being heavy and for not concentrating on the present task.
Where your mind specifies to forget what has actually occurred in the early morning and focus on the present task but the heart doesn’t allow you to do so as it is constantly blaming you.
However, but, but …
And when we wish to have fun, when we wish to take pleasure in the night tea, the night ice cream and when we want to feel nature, we need to let our heart take control of and delight in the experiences.
On states other hand, our brains make us think logically about everything and we hate it when the logic is against rationally in our own daily actions …
Whereas your mind being the logical one will always be the bad man as you are looking at it from the rational perspective.
Your heart never says “NO”. Your heart asked you for 5 more minutes and you slept for 2 more hours. However, but …
If you versus it’s only your mistake …
The heart or rather the rational part of our mind is logical when we want to feel required.
Your heart asked you for 5 more minutes and you slept for 2 more hours. Once you are awake, you will feel regret and heavy-headed all day along since your heart is constantly blaming you for not getting up on time and meditating on what you decided to do.
Let’s continue the above example of early morning alarm to understand this.
In the battle of mind vs heart, we need to always prefer one side based on the circumstance.
Yes, the heart is only your partner in crime not in the consequences.
why it is dearer to us than our mind since it never states no. Let’s take an example … When you want to wake up early in the early morning, when the alarm rings, your brain understands that you need to wake up early and do meditation that you have decided to do, while the heart does not desire to come out of that comfy sleep but at the very same time doesn’t want to be the bad
guy. It will state 5 minutes more … Nothing more simply 5 minutes and that is what we fall for and we end up sleeping for 2 more hours …